POSITIVE PARENTING TIPS-LET YOUR CHILD BLOSSOM

By Sudha Gupta

Parenting is a skill which is made richer by everyday experiences. Every parent wants their child to be the best. Positive parenting essentially means a good parent-child relationship. Children are precious for all parents and every parent would be interested in knowing how they can be better parents. Good parenting skills help to develop a great relationship with your children.

Mrs. Sudha Gupta is a well know parenting expert in India.  Here are some tips from her exclusive Positive Parenting concept which will help to make the journey smoother and easier. These are the easiest ways which can be applied in your daily life to make your relationship with your children meaningful and wholesome.

Let children be themselves

Set your children free! Let them be what they want to be. Do not mould them according to your aspirations. Never force your desires or dreams on children. Let them build their own dreams and help them achieve by supporting them all the way.

Give them unconditional love

Children are always hungry for love and appreciation no matter what age they are. Always express your love through words or touch. Giving a hug everyday can really work wonders in making a strong bond with your child. Don’t tie conditions on love, like you will buy them a new toy if they score good marks etc. Let you love flow unconditionally without any restrictions and clauses.

Provide a loving and supporting atmosphere

Children should live with joy. A loving atmosphere at home ensures confident and happy growth in children. The best thing you can do for them is to give them a loving and supporting atmosphere.

Maintain a friendly relationship

Create a friendly bond with your children. Rather than bossing your children around and telling them what to do/what not to do all the time, be a friend to your child. Place yourself at a level lower than the kids so that they can put across their views easily in front of you rather than cringing away from talking to you.

Be the role model you wish your child to be

Children learn from their elders. They watch you all the time and imitate you. They not only copy your habits but also your behaviour. Always display proper, respectful, and good behaviour; it works way better than instructing them what to do.

Being a parent is a privilege given to you. Children are little bundles of joy that come into this world through you. Learn to enjoy, nurture and support them. Do not try to make them your future investments. 

POSITIVE PARENTING TIPS – EMPOWER YOUR CHILD THROUGH THESE

Parents are often unaware as to how their unconscious actions and choices affect their children. Children pick up behaviour and ideas from us. Children have delicate, impressionable minds that are affected by what they perceive. Whatever we do or say has an impact on them.

Following these simple positive parenting tips by the well-known parenting expert of India, Mrs. Sudha Gupta, are deeply embedded in child empowerment philosophy which aims at bringing up positive individuals that contribute responsibly to the society.

Spend time with children everyday

The best tool to improve your child’s behaviour is to spend time with him. Spend time with him and give positive attention and form emotional connect with him. If he doesn’t have your attention he will seek out negative ways to get it, which will not be easy to correct later. 10-15 minutes of your time is all that you need to spend with him and see a positive change in him.

Follow good sleep hygiene

When you are tired you get cranky, and irritable. The same thing happens with children. A well-rested child is well-behaved and calm. The best way to find out how much sleep is required for your child is to consult your family physician about the sleep patterns to be followed according to the age of your child.

Keep positive expectations

A child learns what he sees happening around him. It is like natural law; whatever you focus on, you’ll get it. If he focuses on your misgivings then that’s what he is going to get. Have positive expectations from your child, and he will do his/her best to live up to those expectations. It is about your choices. Positive expectations always bear the right effects on your child’s behaviour; it brings out the Best in Your Child! This also proves good the other way round; if you expect your child to disobey you, don’t be surprised when he/she senses this lack of trust in you and makes your unexpressed apprehensions come true. The trust your child gets from you is his true empowerment.

Stick to positive language

Language is the source of all expressions. All great leaders have brought change in society by influencing people/followers through their powerful words. The right language can bring forth endless possibilities and potential in your children. When your child faces failure, use positive words to boost his/her morale and assure that he/she can do better. Moreover, it is not always right to say ‘No’; turning your child’s demands down with positive reinforcements is the key.

Respect your child and he will respect you

Respect is not something that can be taught; it comes from behaviour. It is something that you express to someone through gestures or words. Respect your child if you wish him to respect you too. Values that are imbibed since childhood stay in your heart and mind for life. Being compassionate, helping others and understanding everyone’s needs are a few good qualities you would wish your child to follow all the time. Therefore, try to treat your child as a competent individual and watch him/her reciprocate the respect in his/her behaviour.

Inculcate beliefs that make sense

What we believe in is what we are. Our beliefs are what shape our life in both good ways and bad. Often our beliefs are the general norms followed in the society and they are sometimes inefficient in the present times. When your child is against your belief or ideas – rethink about it, maybe you really need to change them and move in tandem with today’s times.

As a parent you want to give your child a good start in life. With these positive parenting tips, you can nurture, guide and protect them in a positive way.

Who is the right Parenting Expert for your child?

With the growing requirement for parenting related counselling, many parenting centres and specialists have emerged. They all assure to pull the parents out from the darkness of unawareness and push them towards the effective path of positive parenting. But unfortunately not all institutions deliver what they promise. Some of them are just money-making machines that aspire to drain the pockets of the parents without providing them any value for their hard earned money. But there are some astounding Parenting Experts in India, who have the ability to simply change lives with their touch of experience and optimism.

One of such renowned Parenting Expert in Delhi is Mrs. Sudha Gupta, the honourable chairperson of some of the biggest and most reputed educational institutes in India. Packed with volumes of insightful knowledge about positive parenting, she has some amazing positive parenting mantras to transform the entire parenting experience for parents, as well as for children. She profoundly believes that being in the education industry is bliss as she gets to deal with the future of our nation. Therefore, she is always determined to handle every child with unique love, care, warmth and attention. This helps in optimum overall development of children, so that they shine brighter tomorrow.

She conducts some brilliant seminars on Positive Parenting, where parents learn about the joy of parenting, to which they have been partially blind. They gain an exceptional parenting approach that carries the power to control their children for their own betterment. While elaborating their experience of the seminar, some parents even cry. Every parent steps out of the seminar venue as a parent who has just been born, a parent who is full of hope and love for his children. It is resplendent to see their progress as parents after attending the positive parenting seminars led by her.

According to her, parenting is a joy that is not only about raising a child, but also about raising the parents. But many parents fail to see parenting as a full time, exciting journey. They forget that the impressionable minds of kids are prone to feelings than they can guess. The everyday small problems of parents can leave a big negative impact on their children. Therefore, as a trusted Parenting Expert in India, she considers it her duty to open the gates of Positive Parenting for all the parents. Her advice never sounds bookish and can be easily applied in your everyday life with a dash of your own signature love and care.